Friday, February 24, 2012

Surrogate mother for man and his parents who want a grand child?

Would you be willing to become a Surrogate mother for a single man who lives with his parents? He and his parents want a child/grandchild, and would be raising the child with his son. Would you consider using your own eggs or use an egg donor. Would you still do it if it is illegal under state law for him to financially compensate you except expenses? Would you allow Pre-implantation methods to generate a girl, if it is a boy unlikely he will accept it? Father and his parent will have full custody and will be allowed to leave state/country. Surrogate mother for man and his parents who want a grand child?
I was with ya! All the way until you got to the part where he wouldnt accept a boy.

If a person wants a child, it its typical that any child would make them happy. There are couples all across the country that are unable to have children and I truly feel badly for them. So much so that at one point in my life I had considered being a surrogate. But that planned changed because of health reasons.

If that love could only be ascertained by a girl then Im thinking something is wrong with that man and his parents and therefore would be undeserving.
It's your body, your genetic material, and nobody else

should tell you what decision to make.

Just be sure that what you agree to, you can live with after.

How do you feel about what you propose to do?

If there's any chance at all of his refusing the child, then

of course, he should not be dealt with.

He's purchasing a service, and he's at least 50% responsible,

(more if he chooses an egg donor mother), for the outcome.

At the very least, there must be a very clear, and specific contract.

If it's his parents that want, and will probably be raising the child,

what is your impression of their fitness for the task?

Surrogate mother for man and his parents who want a grand child?
No,I wouldn't. I don't think I could give a child away that I carried for nine months. I especially wouldn't do it if the father refused the child because it was a boy. Would make me wonder what the motives are for only wanting a girl.
What?!? Highly unlikely.

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