Saturday, February 11, 2012

What do you think about people using surrogate mothers?

Like gestational carriers who carry a pregnancy for another

woman? They do not provide a genetic contribution (ovum) to the pregnancy but provide strictly a pregnancy carrier service ("a rented womb") and hands the baby over to the genetical mother at the conclusion of the pregnancy. When they insert the ovary into the other woman, and then have the child?

Do you think it's ok? Would you be a woman who uses the other woman like this? Do you know any people who did?What do you think about people using surrogate mothers?
I had my baby through a surrogate. It's not using a woman if the other woman agrees to do this. There is a lot involved in using a surrogate. Lost of expenses, lots of legal paper work, etc... This is not something that just anyone can do there has be legitimate reasons as to why a surrogate would be necessary. For me it was my last option to have a baby of my own.
i think it is a wonderful thing to do for somebody else. to make somebody else's life finally fulfilled and completely happy, is truely amazing. i am speaking to somebody who is wanting to use a surrogent as she lost her own child and is now unable to bear children of her own. i'm going to do it for her. if i can't be happy, at least i can live with the fact that i can make somebody else happy.What do you think about people using surrogate mothers?
I think if a women is strong enough to be able to carry and give birth to a baby and then give it away after it is good and came in handly to women who on there own can not have children for whatever reason.

As much of a help as it may be to someone I am not 100% sure I would be able to do it. It would be like giving your baby up for adoption, even throw the baby wasn't that womens, it was still inside her, she would still get all the things that come with being a mother (her body wise), everything but the baby.
I think they do this because they do not want to ruin their bodies so to speak or go through the pain which is so wrong. If you are able to get pregnant then you are the one who should have kids not someone you can pay and say here have my kid for me.
I think that if it's someone you trust and are very close with, I think it would be ok. I don't know if I could do it because it would be hard to detatch yourself from that baby...feeling it grow and wiggle. It would be hard not to want to mother the baby yourself. Morally, I think it would take a VERY unselfish person to do it. It's a beautiful thing to put yourself through that for someone else.
I'm gay and this is pretty debated in the gay community. Some gay couples have already had children with their own DNA through surrogacy. I really think this is ultimately wrong, I have many friends who are adopted and love their parents to death, but it bothers them sometimes that they were put up for adoption by there birth parents. I can't imagine finding out that my parents had me through surrogacy, I cant think of how mad I would be at my parents and the mother who carried me.
i have great respect for surrogate mothers giving there womb and 9months of there life so someone can have a baby i think its wonderful and i feel so sorry for the people who cannot have there own children, i am currently 39weeks pregnant with my first baby

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