Where can I find information on surrogate mothers? Personal experience or iformation on becoming one--great.?

God bless you for considering such a wonderful gift! Of course, there are many reasons to be a surrogate and several things to consider if you believe this is something you are interested in doing.



The three main things you need to know (in my opinion) are:



--Are you finished with your family? Emotional attachment usually isn't as great as you expect... you have 10+ months to prepare for the "end". The joy and blessings you bestow when creating another family make it much easier to transition afterwards. However, if you feel you would like to have more children in your family at a later date, the separation could be much more difficult.



--What does your family, friends, and possibly your work think about this? Because you are doing this for someone else, it could be a difficult thing for others to understand. I highly recommend discussing this in depth with your family and closest friends. They are going to be the ones there through the morning sickness, swollen ankles and MOODINESS! ;o) With their undying love and support, this could be one miracle you will never be able to top...



--What do you want from this? While most surrogates do receive some sort of financial support, make sure you are doing this with an open heart and mind. This could be the most rewarding thing you ever do in your life - but at times it can be very emotionally draining, too!



If you are truly considering this, I would be happy to help answer any more questions you have. No matter what, you are an angel for just thinking about blessing someone else with the gift of a child! That is priceless!Where can I find information on surrogate mothers? Personal experience or iformation on becoming one--great.?
Well my one daughter in law went to the Clinic and got hers and had 2 babies in the hospital and had the babies and if needed the drs was on staff to come in they were there and now she is due again and Im sure she will do the same againWhere can I find information on surrogate mothers? Personal experience or iformation on becoming one--great.?
I know someone that used one to have her twin boys. The woman used her own eggs with my friends husbands sperm. My friend gave birth to the children.They picked the surrogate themselves through a book but did not meet her. She had already had children I think that this was a requirement. I think that they paid her like 20k plus all of the medical expenses. It worked out for them but my friend is a little worried about the weirdness of having to tell the twins when the time comes that she really isnt their bio mother. This a a big decision for both sides. Make sure before entering into this that mentally you will be ok with it.