What do you think of surrogate mothers?

okay i have this friend that is nearing her 30s she really wants to have a child but she cant have childeren, she just recently went throught a divorce that she was in for 10 yrs. Her ex alrealdy had 2 kids since the divorce, but she is still single and really wants to have a child. she doesnt NEED a man in her life, but she wouldnt mind if she was in love again. but i have thought of maybe having one for her? Would that be a good idea?What do you think of surrogate mothers?
To be honest, that is a wonderful thing to offer, but the whole process would be so extremely hard on both you and your friend (and also the baby).



My advice is to look into adoption. That way you are giving a child a chance at life. Both my brother and sister were adopted and it was a great experience for both them, my parents, and my sister and I (we're twins).



Please consider adoption.
Its a very trying and hard thing to do but a wonderful thing as well! I did a lot of research on suggorate motherhood for a paper in college and I feel strongly that it is an awesome thing. Research it if you are really interested. I would definitely do it for a close friend or family member. It is a truly selfless and beautiful thing to do, but it might be hard for you to go through the pregnancy and birth and have to give the child up. If you decide to do it, you have to be completely decided and devoted. It takes a lot of thought. Good luck!What do you think of surrogate mothers?
are you going to be caring her child then it because if its yours i am sure you wont want to give up your baby after he or she is born
has she considered adoption?
Yes/ no, One of the problems that happens is that the surrogant mother decides she can't give the baby away even though it's not her egg and generally the sperm will come from the infertil women's husband.. Has she ever thought about I.V.F That is a really nice thing your willing to do but think that it will effect your body and do you have children already? or would this be your first pregnancy? How would you react to seeing the child? what if your friend moved away with the child how would you feel? What if you don't agree with her parenting style? it would be her child.. I would think about it alittle longer before even mentioning it to her because you could get her hopes up for nothing.... Good Luck!