I am 21 and I am thinking long term. I want to stay single my entire life but because i am the last line of my family and actually the only one who can keep my family going and reproduce the next generation it is my duty to continue it. I don't trust women and I don't care to be in a relationship with one but I do want 3 healthy boys that will in turn continue my family line. Would it be hard to find a surrogate mother that would agree to help me out?Do surrogate mothers typically only agree to help out couples who can't conceive?
I think that would depend on where you're living and how successful you are and if you can prove that you'd be a good father somehow. It wouldn't hurt to ask/try though!
I know I only want to carry my own kids, but if my best guy friend (gay) ever wanted to have a child with his boyfriend, I'd help them out.Do surrogate mothers typically only agree to help out couples who can't conceive?
lol 鈥?what a funny scenario you have come up with! But no, I doubt you would find anyone willing to surrogate that way. A surrogate only carries the child, so you would still have to find someone to give you an egg. Which is a big process for the woman, involving months of injections and invasive procedures. If you plan on using the surrogates egg, that makes her the mother, by birth and blood. Also, you cannot choose to have all boys, you have a 50/50% chance of having boys or girls each time. How would you make a living and raise 3 children without a mother? Who will breastfeed the babies? There is a reason why it takes two to make a baby, because that is the best way to have happy healthy children. Fortunately you are still young and have time understand the life, love and parenting better. Maybe you are gay and too scared to admit it, but staying single your whole life sound very sad and lonely to me. One day you will fall in love, be it with a girl or boy and everything will change. It would probably be easier to find someone willing to help you if you are in a stable and loving relationship, whether gay or straight, as this is a better environment to raise a child - but adopting could be an easier option.
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