How do I find people who are wanting a surrogate mother outside of an agency?

I want to be a surrogate mom, and have applied at an agency as well, I'm waiting to hear back from them, but in the mean time I was wondering if there was some website or something that had women who were needing a surrogate mom so I could see my options here. Thanks!How do I find people who are wanting a surrogate mother outside of an agency?
please consider the needs of the future child. let me leave with you something a friend told me:



Surrogacy is NEVER in the best interests of the person who is created in these circumstances.



How can it be anything other than damaging for a newborn baby to be separated after birth from the only person it knows..it's mother?!? Nature does not intend that a child be taken from its mother within minutes, hours, days or weeks of its birth. This is the critical time of "bonding"; the very foundation-stone of physical and emotional wellbeing in the life of the human child.



Sometimes, through death, abandonment (or adoption)....a child loses its mother. Hopefully its father is able to protect and nurture it...with support from family and friends. A newborn child, (whose mother has died or disappeared), is vulnerable and grieving for its profound loss. I would recommend that you read Nancy Verrier's work "The Primal Wound" for a deeper understanding of the effects of separation on mother and baby.



It is becoming increasingly acceptable to "create" a child through IVF surrogacy arrangements. This requires two women to contribute/participate in the child's conception through ova donation and gestational surrogacy. Perhaps people who embark on this process believe that a child will not experience loss because neither the genetic nor gestational mother are

"wholly" connected to the child. I think that a child created in these circumstances will feel a very deep sense of loss that it does not have a "whole" mother in its life.



Do read Nancy Verrier......she will illuminate your way as you ponder these profoundly important issues.
http://www.surrogatecommunity.com would be a great place

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How do I find people who are wanting a surrogate mother outside of an agency?
The reason why you go through an agency is for your protection. If you can find a lawyer in your area with expertise in surrogacy, then you may have an option. However, most of those guys are working with family members being surrogates for other family members.

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