Saturday, March 3, 2012

How would a little girl feel toward her birth mother (surrogate mother) and father?

How would a little girl feel toward her birth mother (surrogate mother) and father? She knows that her father always wanted to have a little girl of his own. Her surrogate mother used a egg donor. When she was a new born baby, her father got full custody of her as required by the surrogate contract. Would she still want to meet her birth surrogate mother.How would a little girl feel toward her birth mother (surrogate mother) and father?
Who knows? There's no way to predict how any one individual will react to any one thing - that's the wonder of us irrational beings.



That said, it's pretty likely that the child will be curious about the surrogate and want to know about her at some point, even if not necessarily wanting to meet her. And if it's a traditional surrogate, where the baby and surrogate are genetically linked, having at the very least her medical history will be important at times.



Of course, there are exceptions, but especially if being raised by a single father - the question of "where did I come from" becomes an obvious one. If the child is a girl, she's going to likely find "surrogate" (in the other sense of the word) "mothers" along the way, women she's close to as a source for female guidance, be it a family friend, aunt, cousin, etc. That's not necessarily the role she'd choose to have her actual surrogate mother fulfill, but is an important one.
Unless the egg was the surrogate mother's I don't think so.



You have no connection but those nine months that she won't even remember. Sorry.How would a little girl feel toward her birth mother (surrogate mother) and father?
Yes.......and i'm sure when she gets older and discovers that her creation was about a contract she will have issues.



How could she not.



She will want to know/see/meet her mother. Contracts can't eliminated feelings.

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